Elder's jealousy - Pediatric Oncall

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I have two girls aged 2 years, 7 months and 7 months. My problem is the elder's jealousy. Not only does she stammer, but talks in her sleep that "she is my mommy not yours!". In Your opinion what is the best way to handle this situation? By giving in to her whims (wanting the bottle or wanting to ride in the walker etc. Or being firm and telling her she is too old for these things? Thank you for your time
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This is very common to have jealousy against the newborn especially since she is also 2 years old. Giving in to her whims or telling her that she is old for this may not help. Instead try to divert her attention to other things. Try to give lots of attention and include her in the care of the baby, praise her for being helpful and remember to tell her how much you and the baby love her. Show her when the baby is watching and smiling at her and encourage her to talk to her. You will have to be very patient but firm. Back to All Questions

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